Ten Ways to know that she/he is the One

So often in today’s hectic time and age, we jump into things without knowing the entire consequences that may be associated with it. But just as with scientific research questions, a relationship holds the same guidelines and principles.


1 ) If your interests and hobbies were placed on a Venn Diagram, the total surface area of the mutual overlap should be very close to the total surface area of your respective individual circles.

2 ) If you can finish each other’s sentences without seeming like a grandiloquent.

3 ) If one lacks in a particular field, the other does not hesitate to politely fill in and contribute.

4 ) The relationship as a whole is greater than the sum of your independent characteristics.

5 ) If your love and compassion for each other is not mutually exclusive.

6 ) If you can feel comfortable with each other even when everything else in life seems futile.

7 ) If your love for each other is exothermic, yet stable enough to be contained.

8 ) If her beauty is 4 and 5/16ths of a star, but you would round her up to 5.

9 ) If you fail a joke once, but are charming the other 9 times, she realizes the average is still good.

10 ) If your co-existence in unison is like a wave slightly out of phase, thus, addition…

*11 ) If you guys can bend each other’s stress! (Most important)

Then she/he is for you…


About the Author: Kevin Kim

I have devoted my life to science and rational thinking. As a student in life's classroom, I am striving to learn something new every day. Graduate of UC Riverside, Class of 2012. Graduate Student at Keck Graduate Institute, part of the Claremont Colleges. Class of 2014 with a Masters in Bioscience. The track is pharmaceutical design and development with the ultimate goal of becoming a pharmacist who can also contribute scientifically through research. I hope that through my postings, people will no longer be crippled by stress and anxiety. Fight on! Fight Strong!

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